Mother allegedly abandons children for years in 'deplorable' conditions: Authorities

The children were living among mold and piles of garbage, officials said.

February 18, 2025, 4:08 PM

A Michigan mother was arrested on Friday for allegedly abandoning her children for several years, leaving them in deplorable conditions, according to the Oakland County Sheriff's Department.

The 34-year-old woman from Pontiac, Michigan, allegedly deserted her three children, a 15-year-old boy and two daughters ages 12 and 13, for approximately four to five years, "leaving them to live alone in absolute squalor," officials said.

"Throughout my extensive career in this field, I have never encountered a scenario as dire and prolonged as this one, involving abandonment, neglect and abuse of the highest order," Sheriff Michael J. Bouchard said in a statement.

A Michigan mother was arrested for abandoning her three children for years, leaving them in ‘deplorable’ conditions, according to the Oakland County Sheriff’s Department.
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During a press conference on Tuesday, Bouchard said the children were believed to be abandoned since the spring of 2020. Officials said that the boy only came out of the house twice, once to feel the grass and another to check the mail.

The children were discovered on Friday afternoon when deputies received a call from a landlord to perform a welfare check at a house in the 600 block of Lydia Lane. The landlord was concerned about the residents since he had not heard from the mother since December and had not received rent since October.

When deputies arrived on the scene, they found the three children in the home alone living in horrific conditions. In some rooms of the house, garbage was piled as high as four feet, along with mold and human feces found throughout the residence. The bathtub and toilets were overflowing with human excrement, and authorities said the mother only dropped off trash bags, gloves and Febreze back in 2020.

"It appeared that the children were unfamiliar with how to use personal hygiene items or know how to flush a toilet," the sheriff's department said.

The boy told authorities that he and his two sisters had been living alone since 2020 or 2021, and that the three of them survived on prepared food delivered once a week. Officials said companies like Instacart or DoorDash were delivering the food, not knowing the kids were inside.

Authorities said recently the children were only receiving a loaf of bread that was supposed to last three to four days.

The young boy told authorities he had been in contact with his mother, but it appeared "she had not seen the girls in years."

"It kind of reminds me of the commercials you see where animals are living in very deplorable conditions," Bouchard told ABC News. "Take that times 10, and that's what the kids were living in for years."

The children had not attended school since their abandonment, passing time by watching television and playing games. When discovered, the children were wearing soiled clothing, had matted hair and toenails several inches long — making it challenging to walk. The boy slept on a mattress while the two girls slept on pizza boxes, officials said.

The woman was found at another location and arrested without incident, officials said. She told authorities the father of the children was not involved in their lives. Officials confirmed on Tuesday that the father had been incarcerated for a period of time and had no contact with the children. But upon his release, he filed paperwork for visitation rights, but the mother would still not allow him to see the children, officials said.

Neighbors were not aware of the children's living conditions and told authorities they only saw the mother dropping things off at the house. The family of the children was also unaware of the situation, since the mother told them the children were with a babysitter, officials said.

"Everybody is upset about it," said Pontiac resident Emma Gross, who lives a few streets over from where the children were found. "This is right in our neighborhood, how could something like this happen?"

The mother is being held at Oakland County Jail and officials said detectives are expected to hand over the case to prosecutors for review in the next few days. Detectives determined there were no other "accomplices" to this incident, officials said.

The children were examined at a hospital for evaluation — appearing to be in "good health" — and have been placed in the custody of a relative via Child Protective Services, officials said.

Bouchard said the "far-reaching consequences of this abuse must be acknowledged" and that the department plans to figure out how these children "fell through the cracks on so many levels with relatives, the community and with schools."

"We look forward to presenting this case to the prosecutor and ensuring that she faces the consequences of her actions," Bouchard said.

The mother's identity is not being released as she shares the same name as one of her children, officials said.

The community has donated clothing for the children and authorities confirm a financial donation will be set up as well.